Thursday, July 22, 2010

巫统+回教党=回教国?

十三个月前曾经轰动大马政坛一时的巫统与回教党探讨合作的课题,现在似乎死灰复燃。当时经过了民联内部一连串的周旋,后来回教党主席哈迪阿旺终于表态回教党继续留在民联斗争。


这次挑起回巫合作课题的是霹雳州回教法律专家(Mufti)哈鲁萨尼,他声称回巫高层领袖曾经找他寻求意见关于回教徒团结的课题。在308大选,回教党已经在非回教徒心中磨灭回教国的阴影,那么,非回教徒头脑的数学公式即“巫统+回教党=回教国”,再燃起恐惧?此时,曾经一度支持回巫谈判合作的回教党署理主席纳沙鲁定却罕有公开驳斥此课题灭火,并宣称一切将依照党大会的议决继续留在民联在第十三届大选入主中央政府。


哈鲁萨尼是否可信?有人质问他回巫的领袖是谁时,他不愿透露,只以他是一个 Mufti 是不会讲骗话的作回应。但他其实就是那个在2007年传播手机短信的发起人,当时他传播在霹雳州一间天主教堂为一群马来人青年进行洗礼而引来人群的骚动。结果并没有其事,但他却没受到法律的对付。他对回教相当极端,目前世界杯足球期间,很多人都穿所支持的国家的球衣,他呼吁回教徒不要穿有十字架的球衣。这种的宗教激情,对缔造宗教彼此和谐是绊脚石。那么,回教徒是否也不可以去那些国旗有十字架的国家旅游?


在政坛里,什么情况都可以变化。人民如果不带着一种为国家的利益而投票的话,肯定被政客愚弄。经过了不少议员跳槽事件,人民对政党的理念,无论是国阵或民联,多少都带有戒心。


譬如首相纳吉对回巫合作课题,以“看回教党的诚意”作回应,那即等于给巫统一个谈判空间,“一个马来西亚”主题也即打了折扣!回教党除了署理主席驳斥,回青却不予以否认,肯定让人民产生遐想。这种巫统和回教党之间的暧昧关系,也将影响下届大选的走势。


最直截了当的回应来自回教党长老聂阿兹,他在面子书大力反对回巫团结,并述说以前回教党失策的决定。他回忆:“1973年当任首相敦拉萨呼吁我们加入联邦政府,我们基于信仰为由而加入,但事实上它并不如愿实现团结。”回教党结果在1978年失去吉兰丹州。长老要继续与行动党和公正党在民联斗争,即使是漫长的路。今天巫统再邀请回教党加入它们,但长老说将不会发生,除非巫统改变它们的政策及跟回教党一样完全接受回教。


好像聂阿兹一样大把年纪又经历1970年代痛苦的回教党党员已经寥寥可数了。现在的年轻党员并不在乎历史,所以回巫团结的可能性仍然存在。相信人民也希望回教党作个明确的交代,到底要不要对巫统邀请,作个决定把走过了的桥切断,把载送过了岸的船烧掉,以致没有回头路,好让人民在下届大选作个明确的选择?

Friday, July 16, 2010

Malaysia Getting Too Expensive To Live In

Prime Minister Najib caught Malaysians unaware by cutting subsidy on five items: sugar, cooking gas, Ron 95, Ron 97, and diesel. The country will save RM750 million subsequently. Najib said money saved will be used on education and health.

Najib also claimed that the opinions of people were sought, and they agreed to subsidy cuts. The claim was doubtful as reports in various media showed otherwise. Instead of cutting subsidy, people wanted the government to do away with wasteful spending and check on corruption which is rampant.

With the money saved, how can the public monitor whether it will be truly used in the said category? It had been numerous unfulfilled promises since the days of Dr. Mahathir, so much so that people are unconvinced by the "sincerity" of the government.

Malaysia could be a very prosperous country. We have many natural resources, yet we are lagging behind our neighbor Singapore which has nothing. We were the pride of Asia in the 1960s and 1970s, our economies surpassed China, Taiwan, Korea, Thailand, Indonesia and Singapore. But today not only these countries have overtaken us, even the backward countries like Vietnam and Cambodia will soon jeer on us.

It is very disappointed that our standard of living is on the decline. If not because of corruption by our leaders we would not suffer lack. Sad to say that today Malaysia is one of the most expensive place to live in the world. Don't believe? Let me enclose a message which was written by a frustrated Malaysian I received in Facebook. I am sure many Malaysians can identify with the thought of the writer. But what to do, since we don't have any revenue to migrate?

Message by a frustrated Malaysian:

What do we get for paying all the toll fares every day? The roads are built with our tax money and we still have to pay exorbitant toll fares just to use them.

The momentum of the government policies is moving towards cutting off all subsidies. The petrol that comes from our own oil wells will soon cost the same like that of countries that own no wells.

Then the extra GST (goods and services tax) that serves no purpose to the consumers, except making the government richer.

Now we have to pay RM50 just to have the convenience of using a credit card.

Why is it getting so expensive to live in Malaysia now?

Here are more reasons why:

We have to pay for security guards because the police are totally useless.

We have to install expensive water filters because the water supply is so dirty and rusty.

We have to watch satellite TV because the government broadcasts are so substandard.

We have to send our children for tuition because the government schools are below par.

We have to send our grown children to private colleges because the government colleges are primarily reserved for certain race.

Even when our children earn many "A"s, that does not guarantee a place in the local universities. Thus we have to spend more money to send our children overseas.

In many places, we have to pay IPPs (Independent Power Providers) because the government is not able to provide consistent electricity supply.

We have to pay Indah Water to clean up the sewers.

We have to buy our own cars because the public transport is a big fat joke.

We have to pay taxes for foreign cars because a certain old politician and his cronies need to keep the dying local car industry alive.

We have to pay the AP (Approved Permits) cost for imported cars and these APs are controlled by the politicians and their cronies.

We can only visit few clients in a day because the government does not know how to prevent traffic jams.

We have to drive through floods every time the storm hits. Some places, not only our streets are flooded but our homes.

We have to pay bribes to the police because they are experts in creating fake traffic offenses.

We even have to pay the dog catchers to leave our pets alone.

We have to pay to sustain the government's affirmative action policies.

We have to pay for private health care because the public hospitals are too crowded.

Our hard-earned saving is shrinking because the Malaysian Ringgit is currently struggling to keep up with other currencies.

To the Expatriates, Malaysia is a cheap place to live but to those of us who earn small salaries in Malaysian Ringgit, this country is getting very expensive to survive.

Posted on behalf of a Malaysian who has since disappeared from Malaysia... maybe looking for his pot of gold in Singapore or Australia.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

十八岁自动注册为选民

干净与公平选举联盟向选举委员会日前提呈15项选举制度改革诉求,我对于自动注册为选民和把选民年龄降低到18岁表示支持。


民联议员在国会曾经好几次提出自动注册为选民的建议,国阵议员的回答不外乎说为了尊重人权,不强制人民投票为由而拒绝。这般的回答很牵强,人民的名字即使在选民册里,但人民却仍然有投不投票的选择权力。


我国目前的选民登记运动,真的劳民伤财。我们浪费人力和钱财资源,如果把这些资源用在国家建设上,可以带来很大的收益。选委会遗憾目前还有4百30万人没有注册为选民,那么他们除了遗憾又有什么良策呢?令人不明的是为什么又限制政党每月索取极少表格数目呢?


我认为选委会若配合国民登记局的合作的话,自动登记合格公民为选民是不难的。我国的电子晶片身份证卡,是跑在很多国家之前的。大马卡晶片并没有充分使用,若把人民的选区也记录在里头,在加上在投票站使用解读器的话,选举肯定将变得更干净。


把年龄降低到18岁是合时潮的,因为培养年轻人关心国家,肯定有助于国家发展。我国需要那些希望看到国家变得更好而投身政治的热血青年,那么给他们从年轻时即参与选择权利是正确做法。我国12岁第一次申请身份证,按照条例,18岁须更换新卡。若18岁自动登记选民,他们的地址也已经更新了,这等于说地址是和选区相符的。

净选盟向选委会提15诉求,促全面改革我国选举制度

作者:本刊记者 Jul 09, 2010 06:12:31 pm

【本刊记者撰述】干净与公平选 举联盟(Bersih,简称净选盟)今日向马来西亚选举委员会(SPR)提呈备忘录,并列出15项全面改革选举制度建议,特别是自动登记满18岁的国民为 选民、开放允许符合条件的选民通过邮寄选票投票及根据社区民众利益划分选区。

此外,净选盟也要求选委会关注当务之急务必解决两大课题,分别 是立即调查所有在选举发生的违反选举法令案件,特别是最新的两场补选,即雪州乌鲁雪兰莪及砂州诗巫国会议席补选,以及撤销限制选民登记的措施,如限制选民 登记注册官的选民注册表格。

净 选盟主席安碧嘉(Ambiga Sreenevasan)、净选盟委员兼独立媒体撰稿人联盟主席黄进发、雪兰莪自强协会(EMPOWER)主席玛利亚陈(Maria Chin Abdullah)、隆雪华堂民权委员会主席廖国华、林连玉基金会代表黄业华等人今天到布城选委会大楼提呈这份备忘录。 备忘录内容如下:

呼吁选委会短期内立即关注两大的议题:

(一)立即调查所有在选举发生的《1954年违反选举犯罪法 令》(Election Offences Act 1954)案件,特别是最新的两场补选,即雪州乌鲁雪兰莪及砂州诗巫国会议席补选。同时,维护选委会的独立性,提控所有违反《1954年违反选举犯罪法 令》的人士提控上法庭。

(二)关注如限制选民登记注册官的选民注册表格数量的物理投诉,并撤销限制选民登记无理的措施,因为这是违反民主的 行为。特别是目前还有高达400万适龄选民仍未登记。否则,民众对于选委会的公信力将会全面丧失。

净选盟呼吁选委会落实15项选举改革建 议

(A)选举权和投票

(一)自动选民登记:我们主张,所有合格选民都自动登记为合格选 民,他们的身份资料和地 址可通过选举名册和国家登记局的资料库同步更新。这将可去除许多现有有关选举名册的缺陷与投诉,包括幽灵选民、不完整地址、多次更改登记地址。我们极度关 切,选举委员会竟然拒绝自动选民登记的建议,尽管这个建议将可解决 登记过程的所有投诉。

(二)降低投票年龄:我们主张,所有满18岁或以 上的马来西亚公民皆有投票权,并有权成为国或州选举的候选人。他们已经有参与公共生活的 成熟度,而且他们也受到政府教育就业政策的极大影响。世 界上约有90%国家,其中包括邻国印尼、菲律宾、泰国和柬埔寨,已通过18岁或以下为投票年龄。本国没有理由被抛在后头。

(三)所有人皆有 权参与“缺 席投票”:我们主张,取消现有的邮寄选票选民册,让所有选民(无论是在国内或国外、平民或军警人员),只要能够在提名日以前提出合理理由申请,就可参与 “缺席选票”。只要配合自动登记选民和较 长竞选期改革,这项措施是完全可行的。这也能让没有执勤的军警选民无需受邮寄选票限制,而能够与选民般参与投票,这可消除选民对于邮寄投票可能违反保密和 个人意愿的担忧。

(四)不褪色油墨(indelible ink):我们主张,在所有选举中使用不褪色油墨,以防止重复投票。事实上,内阁早在2007年决定落实这项措施,政府后来借口有人将进行破坏而撤销,但 所谓破坏已证实是毫无根据的破坏性谣言。选委会如果一意孤行反对不褪色油墨,将可能被公众视为它默许重复投票。

(B)选区 重划

(五) 把选区划分不公(gerrymandering)问题降至最低-我们主张,根据各社区的利益及地方政府管辖范围划分选区,避免出现国会选区或州选区跨越地 方政府管辖范围问题。同样的,地方社区不应被划入不同选区。选委会应该遵守《联邦宪法》第13附表的规定,尊重“地方联系”。

(六) 把选区划分不均(malapportionment of constituencies)问题降至最低:我们主张,选举委员会必须遵从《联邦宪法》第13附表的规定,即“每个州属的选区选民人数应该近乎相等,除 非是在分割后会造成乡下选区面对接触选民上更大不便及乡其他问题,这些选区才应该在幅员的考虑上得到宽待。”无论如何,选委会不视此规定为其操纵选区人口 多寡的令箭。举例说,雪兰莪州的56 个州选区当中就有17个州选区(占总数的30%),竟然比州内最小的沙白安南(Sabak Bernam)国会选区拥有更多选民。这说明了选委会在上次的选区重划工作中粗暴地违反了宪法的规定。因此,我们要求选委会日后划分选区时,应该确保同一 个州属内的州选区选民人数,不得超过最小国会选区的选民人 数的一半。

(C)竞选与媒体

(七) 有意义的竞选期:我们主张,选委会必须规定竞选期不得少过21天。较长的竞选期能够确保选民拥有充足的时间获取资讯及审慎选择,同时也能逼使政党为了能持 久作战而把分薄资源,因而减低选举对决的紧张气氛。这21天竞选期是合理的诉求,因为1955年英国殖民政府在马来亚举行的首届全国大选,竞选期竟长达 42天,是它的双倍。选委会应建议修改《选举法令》,以制定至少21天的竞选 期。

(八)自由和公平的媒体平台:我们主张,来届大选,选委 会应要求国营广播电台及电视台(RTM)公平地拨出时段让举凡竞选超过三席 的政党进行宣传,并效仿英国今年五月选举时的做法,电视直播首相辩论。选举委员会可以建议修改选举法令,规定国立媒体自由与平等给予报道所有政党的消息, 而私营媒体也必须给予所有政党公平待遇。

(D)选举经费

(九)政党资金管制: 我们主 张,选委会必须建议修改《1954年选举犯罪法令》,确保选举花费不只是计算候选人开销,也必须根据比率(Pro-rata Basis)把政党支付的费用,如广告费等纳入候选人开销之中。

(十)官方补助政党经费:我们主张,选委会应该呼吁联邦和州政府以上届大选 的各政党的得票率为主要准绳,给予所有政党财务支援。

(E)多党民主

(十一)辞职重选的权利:我们主张,选委会应建议联 邦和州政府删除各自宪法中阻止人民代议士在辞职后一定限期内不得重新参选的条款,。目前大部分的人民代议士是代表政党而获得选票。若跳槽到其他政党,他们 就有义务 辞职重新寻求委托。废除这些障碍就能让民意代表在跳槽后失去不辞职的循词。

(十二)行政中立:我们主张,选委会应建议修改《选举 犯罪法令》,以便国会或州议会解散后或是 某个议席被证实悬空后,无论联邦政府,州政府或地方政府都不允许在全国、该州或该选区作出包括发展拨款之类重大与非紧急决策。

(十三)恢复 地方议会选举:我们主张, 选委会应该与任何有意愿在《联邦宪法》第113(4)条款精神下落实恢复地方政府选区的州政府合作。选委会绝对不可违宪行事。

(F) 选举管理

(十四)选举诉讼上的完全司法审核(Judicial Scrutiny):我们主张,选委会应该建议修改《1954年选举犯罪法令》,以便选举诉讼(Election Petition)可以在所有选举舞弊的基础上入禀。2003年时,该法令被修订,以致选民册舞弊问题不得带上法庭挑战。

(十五)监督选举 的权利:我们主张,选委会必须 在下届的全国大选前针对成为监督选举观察员的申请制定一个透明及包容性指南,作为本地及国际选举观察员申请鉴定的标准。选委会同时也应该要求修订《选举法 令》,立法规定这项权利。

来源:http://www.merdekareview.com/news/n/14102.html

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

勉励黄欣宁和家属



在父亲节这大好节期,一场无情车祸使黄家失去了一个伟大的父亲黄成福。从长女欣宁分享家父的见证,相信在场人士都认同成福遗留给家人肉眼不能见的传代物(legacy)--美德。


亲友都称赞这个家庭的成员为人谦虚有礼,成福真的在作父亲的责任上成功了。难怪他生前曾经交代他日后的丧礼是必须要喜乐的。一个人没有遗憾地离开世界,才会感到不枉此生。


我出席丧礼,乃因成福长子仁谦生前在梳邦市是我长子带领的青年团契的成员。他也曾经在我家作过客。仁谦名符其实,是个谦卑有礼的孩子。他的电吉打玩得很好,但从来不张扬。直至我儿子发觉到,本来玩电吉打的他就把玩此乐器的任务交给仁谦在敬拜团队里。现在,他在天堂里参与更好的团队服侍主了!


我儿子在部落格写了一篇回忆录,他说仁谦的面子书个人介绍之照片是一张他跛脚的照片,他背向着镜头,两手臂靠着拐杖,步向前面光亮的地方。我儿子分析,一个不完美的仁谦走向那完美的地方而变得完美,看来他已经向亲友传达了一个信息。


我主持过很多丧礼,也出席过很多丧礼。这次的丧礼却令我在心中有一种难以形容的感受,看着五副棺材,真的感到人生何等难测。不过我认为生命不在乎长短,而是在乎生命的内容。


我很欣佩成福长女欣宁的冷静,生离死别虽然难过,但她却紧记父亲遗言选择往正面去想。她深知父亲和弟妹已经在一个很喜乐的地方,也接受上帝的主权,即上帝赐给,上帝也拿走,所以她能够称颂上帝。欣宁,您的父亲和弟妹是有福的,因为有不少教会为你们祷告,也有超过十个牧师出席您父亲和弟妹的追思会和葬礼。在此勉励你们继续靠主恩典,主会保守看顾你们的。

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

拜托,到底谁该认错?

作者:黄子

明 代儒生周汝礪,颇负文名,长期失意考场, 只好坐馆维生。他生性纯朴,生活严谨,不二色。不过,常告假回家,东家知道他难奈独身寂寞,但又不敢强留。閒谈间,偶尔说及“搵基”,立刻脸色大变,怒斥 这是禽兽恶行,绝对不 沾。

东家知其性格,一日,乘他酒醉,嘱孌跟他唱后庭花。从此耽溺男风。而且,不分老 幼俊丑,大小通吃。后考上进士,晚年死在纵慾之中。上述故事记载在《敝帚斋余谈》。

周汝礪原非同志,而且按照儒家道德观,视孌童为禽兽丑行。但在酒后中了人家的圈套,结果享受他 原视为“兽行”之美味,从此,上了癮。

有人十多年来贩卖李天命的逻辑证实主义的独立思考、语理分析。按照语理分析,周汝礪从反对孌童 到食髓知味,耽溺在同性性行为,结果后庭花下死。这错误,是他个人,或是他原初所信仰的儒家道德思想呢?

应该认错的是周本人,或儒家呢?其次,別忘了,儒有孔孟,更有汉儒宋儒明儒清儒,理论思想有同 有异。该叫谁认错呢?正如所谓的基督教的原教旨主义。大马的基督教有福音派、灵恩派、以及极少数的基要派或原教旨主义。这些都反对同性恋。也有赞成的自由 派,但数量不大。把反对者皆扣上原教旨主义,这又犯了语理分析的哪项悖谬呢?

美国同性恋治疗研究中心的主要领袖成员之一,乔治雷克斯,游欧时被发现召男妓。跟周汝礪的个 案,也许有差异,但也有共同之处。若有错,须先弄清楚,他个人错了,並不等同他们都错了,也不等同他们所主张、理论也错了。这悖谬何止是以偏概全,至少得 加上复合问题。因为,即使还有更多其他同一主张或信仰──不认同同性恋性行为者,跟他们一样,都是“反基”又“搞基”的偽君子,也不等同所信的或理论错 了。若是乔治雷克斯应认错,拜托,去找他,而別黑猫偷吃,要白猫或所有的猫认错。

美国心理学家学会的確通过同性恋不是问题,但这通过是在反对下通过,而非无异议的一致通过。即 有人赞成,也有人反对。

赞成的人认为不必医治,认为治疗是有害无效。其一,这剥夺了反对者继续治疗,以及透过实践研 究、进一步改善突破的机会和权力。其二,学会的结论是“性倾向是先天形成而不可改变”,那这就要讲求证据。约在1920年,爱因斯坦宣佈:“如果光谱线中 移红(red shift)是由於万有引力有可能不存在的话,那么相对论的论说也就站不住脚。” 爱因斯坦在寻找“证偽”,只要能找到这等引证,他就放弃自己的理论。

有关同性恋问题有多种理论、结论並存,为何自己不必放弃认错?而则別人不可继续研究、实践,必 须要放弃认错呢?把仍在爭议的课题,武断为定铁的结论,这不是傲慢无知可笑吗?谁会笑到最后,还得看下去呢。

故意忽视反对“性倾向是天生形成不可改变”的研究机构、医生、心理学家的研究、工作,以及有人 证物证改变个案的成果,又进一步把立场与他有异的基督徒不分青红皂白地標签斥为原教旨主义、为无知、不顾事实的为反而反、恶意扭曲事实等等。

来源:http://opinions.sinchew-i.com/node/15159

北韩

(网主注:也请读 http://allenstae.blogspot.com/2010/06/blog-post_15.html)

作者:马家辉

北韩负於巴西,仅输一球, 且临场表 现不俗,虽败犹荣。

把北韩唤作北韩,相对於 首都设於首尔的南韩,其实这两个地方各有国名,前者是“朝鲜民主主义人民共和国”,虽属恶棍王朝,却仍打正民主招牌,实为世界奇观,可见人间词句之虚妄诡诈。

至於南韩,正式国名是“大韩民国”,雍容正大,一副很有尊严的气势,充份展现了朝鲜民族的自信 传统,我喜欢,而尤喜欢他们能够投票选出自己的各级政治领袖,更能把贪污的领袖送进牢房。

值得注意的是,北韩和南韩的称谓並非独有,国际传媒甚至官方机构亦有此一叫,如果进入FIFA 网页,你可看见北韩队名 是Korea DPR,但赛事报导內文则仍以North Korean唤其队员,显示了南北分野 仍在人心。

有趣的是,心存南北分野,表示內心仍存统一之念,只有在一个国家的完整架构假设下才会把地分南 北,犹如当年的东德西德,从来不把分裂视作永久。反而向来把祖国统一看成头等大事的中国,无论是官方或民间,皆把北韩叫做朝鲜,把南韩唤成韩国,听起来便 截然是两个国家,互不相属,也从不相属,合不合统不统都无所谓了。

来源:http://opinions.sinchew-i.com/node/15171

Friday, June 18, 2010

Don't Marriage Vows Matter Anymore?





The recent rash of marital failures among high-profile Christian leaders is forcing a showdown in the church. It isn't a showdown between those who have failed and those who might criticize them—it's a confrontation needed to face down a mind-set that, if left unchanged, will bring an onslaught of hellish delusion. It's time we take a hard look at why so many marriages—especially of those in leadership—are being torn apart. We need to know how to respond and what the consequences could be if decisive action is not taken now.


There simply is no way to describe the present situation in lesser terms: We are at a point of crisis. Failure has been evident across the entire spectrum, from renowned evangelical Bible preachers to charismatic evangelists, and from noted national youth leaders to ascending Christian TV superstars. Though the unprecedented increase in the number of broken marriages and moral failures occurring in general among church leaders is tragic enough, the crisis is amplified when high-visibility leaders go in and out of marriages.

Sheep follow shepherds, and multitudes mimic the more visible. Struggling couples reduce their own resolve to resist society's indifference toward divorce or immorality when the collapse of their spiritual heroes' marriages seems to justify, if not normalize, those same practices. Comfort, convenience and human counsel replace commitment, constancy and the place of the cross in the marriage.

Confused and biblically unfocused thinking is at the center of this crisis and has amplified its impact. It begins with understandable sympathy appropriately shown for fallen or broken leaders. Certainly, a loving concern for such leaders is fitting.

But unbalanced views of Bible-based disciplines have become prevalent in the church today. And so have intentionally neglectful attitudes that waive the application of biblical wisdom and truth, which is needed to rightly serve the moment and is essential to sustain the pure passion and dynamic vitality of the church. Several concerns rise out of this crisis.

First is the widespread unawareness of the priority of clearly stated biblical qualifications for ministry leadership. Companion to this is the lost emphasis on the intrinsic relationship between a spiritual leader's marital commitment and moral fidelity as fundamentally required for their continued ministry.


Second, many deny or refuse to apply biblical leadership standards when they have been violated. Whether the failure was due to marital stress or outright sin, feelings are allowed to rule rather than biblical principles, and true life-restoring ministry is pre-empted. Wise and righteous dealings in graciously removing a leader from ministry for healing, counsel or other supportive care are disdained as either impractical or "too hard to apply," and humanistic means are substituted for divine directives.

Third, if sound, scriptural administration of the issues surrounding the church, its leaders and their marriages is not soon arrived at with solidarity, there is reason to prophesy widespread deception on other issues as well. The "itching ears" characteristic forecast for the last days represents the mind-set of some of those in church leadership today. It's a setup for delusion with disastrous consequences. Faith and Commitment a few years ago Charisma reported the response of one highly visible church leader who divorced his wife only to remarry within a week: "God didn't call me to marriage," he stated. "He called me to ministry." His remarks were convincing enough to justify his actions in the eyes of the majority of his followers.


There are multiple ironies in such an unbiblical utterance given in such a compromised circumstance, but the bottom line rings out in tragic clarity—several thousand people bought it. Apparently they either thought the idea was a spiritual one, or they didn't care if it wasn't.

In contrast with the glibness suggesting a nobility in "dedication to ministry over marriage" is the truth of God's Word, which casts the issue in a vastly different light. According to the Scriptures, if a leader is married, two things are foundational: (1) the commitment he shows toward his marriage determines his right to lead as a servant of Christ in the church; and (2) the quality he reveals of his will to grow in his marriage determines the manner in which he will model as a representative of Christ to the church.

There is no escaping the two-edged truth unveiled in the New Testament. Because heaven's Bridegroom has come to earth to win a bride for Himself, the principles of both commitment (faith) and constancy (growth) are "locked" in the imagery of the marriage covenant between a man and a woman. Further, no one is more accountable to learn and grow in the lifestyle of modeling this commitment than a leader given by Christ to serve His bride.

No gifts of a brilliant leader, however remarkable, ought to be allowed to substitute for the will to increase in the graces required for two different humans to grow together. No fruit of statistical achievement is a worthy replacement for the required development of the fruit of the Spirit needed for a husband and wife to learn to live together for a lifetime.

Ephesians 5:22-33 not only points to the demanding nature of commitment needed by a husband and wife to make a marriage work, but it concludes with these sweeping words: "I speak concerning Christ and [His] church" (v. 32, NKJV). Forty years of experience and observation of leaders has taught me one profound fact in this regard: A married leader will eventually, and inevitably, treat Jesus' bride the way he treats his own. Likewise, a parent will teach and lead the family of God the same way they lead their own children.

The Ephesians 5 idea of true faith in Christ and His faithful commitment to His own is inextricably linked throughout God's Word to the figure of a faithful, growing marriage. Jesus communicated this idea in His parable of the returning bridegroom (see Matt. 25:1-13).

His use of the figure fills the bridegroom-bride relationship with more than passion: The central issue is fidelity to a promise on the groom's part and constancy of devotion on the bride's. Time can dampen fervor, but true love transcends emotion and remains committed.


The depiction of living faith as a marriage is found throughout the Bible, beginning with the type symbolized in Eve's creation from Adam's side, which foreshadowed Christ's begetting His bride through His wounded side. And it sustains until the finale, for we all anticipate our first stop beyond this world's history at a grand dinner called the marriage supper of the Lamb (see Rev. 19:9). The message: Tribulations rise and fall, but joy will come in the morning--hang tough!


In Jeremiah 3:14, God's commitment to the backslider is, "'I am married to you'"--a statement that calls a leader to seek to sustain his or her marriage even though society argues, "If it's not fun anymore, trash it."

It's a tender issue, and we certainly are never to condemn a divorced or fallen leader. But neither can we permit a casual treatment of their tragedy, for God's Word is never to be lightly regarded on these points. How a believer lives unto Christ is measured in terms of marital fidelity, and how a leader leads in His name is to be judged by the same.

Leadership Standards


Though often cavalierly dismissed by the careless or uninformed, the Word gives requirements that serve as a grid for measuring a spiritual leader's readiness to lead. First Timothy 3:1-15 and Titus 1:5-16 list standards incumbent upon every leader who would serve in the church. This is true regardless of what office they fill, as listed in Ephesians 4:11.

The positional terms in Timothy and Titus--"bishop" (episkopos, overseer); "deacon" (diakonos, minister); and "elder" (presbuteros, mature leader)--form a cluster of at least a dozen behavioral requirements that, at the very least, establish a minimal standard for spiritual leaders. They span everything from being non-argumentative, non-combative and humbly teachable to being a faithful spouse and a good parent.


Equally important is the context—which calls for time to verify these qualities (see 1 Tim. 3:10) and slowness to confirm a person to leadership (see 1 Tim. 5:22). Further, if through a problem, a stress, a tragedy or a personal failure a leader pointedly violates or is unable to fulfill the biblical standard, he or she is to be relieved of ministry—at least for an extended season.


If for no other reason than to grant a needed period for spiritual and emotional healing, this policy ought to be regarded today. Reinstatement may eventually come, since the hope of recovery is characteristic of God's redemptive ways, but not without an extended season of recovery.

An even more thoughtful look at these leadership qualifications reveals that they have more to say about marriage responsibilities than is immediately obvious. Certain direct statements do declare absolute requirements, such as faithfulness in marital commitment (see 1 Tim. 3:2, 12; Titus 1:6) and orderly leadership in raising children (see 1 Tim. 3:4-5, 12; Titus 1:6).


But indirectly, most of the list also applies to marriage. For example, being "hospitable" (see 1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:8) represents an attitude of prioritizing time with one's spouse and family as much as it does welcoming people into your home. Being "gentle" (see 1 Tim. 3:3) and "not quick-tempered" (see Titus 1:7) calls for a private loving, as Christ loved the church, toward one's husband or wife (see Eph. 5:25-29) just as much as for a public graciousness or self-control with members of the congregation.

The fact is, spiritual leaders are expected to meet a higher standard than the world sets for its leading figures. If these requirements are not being met in at least an initial and growing way, the married leader's potential for placement is to be disallowed.


Perfection or full maturity is not mandated, but neither is it enough that the leader be exempted from the standards simply because he or she is "so anointed" (so was Balaam). Nor is it enough that a leadership position be given to a person simply because he or she "has so much insight into the Word" (so does the devil!).


Our society lauds and pays its athletes, entertainers and persuasive leaders just as long as they "keep the show on the road"--but that's not the measure God calls the church to apply. Character, not merely charisma, is the mark of a spiritual leader.

And when he or she is married, the test of that character is proved in the fabric of fidelity to vows and in the self-sacrificing will to serve marriage above ministry. To lower this expectation is extremely risky.

Reversing an Evil Trend

I am persuaded by a portent of danger in our midst of a frightening vulnerability to damning error if this bent toward neglecting the basic and practical standards God sets for leaders continues: If we continue to entertain confusion on these points, we will give place to a satanic darkness that will issue in a plague of spiritual death.

This is no idle warning. The wolf is already at the door, and he's wearing sheep's clothing. Already there have been leaders duped by a demonic doctrine secretly being taught by a former so-called charismatic leader. This false teacher spread a destructive heresy that suggests "immorality is impossible within the kingdom of God."


The concept is a bizarre twist on "kingdom teaching" that argues that after a person has entered God's kingdom they transcend earth's order and are thereby exempt from its laws--even God's. I will not dignify this corruption by explaining the convolutions and distortions of Scripture that underlie this error.

This stands as contemporary evidence that there are those who literally teach immorality and dilute marital commitment, exactly as the Word warns regarding the last days (see 1 Tim. 4:1-2). This is precisely what Jesus so forcibly opposed in the churches at Pergamos and Thyatira (see Rev. 2:14, 20-25).


We are wise to heed this warning. Unless the church shakes herself awake where seducing spirits are luring her away from a "first love" for the values of marital commitment and moral fidelity, a false definition of God's Person will supplant the pure glory of His real presence and give place to destructive delusion.

So what can be done to reverse this horrific trend and bring God's order back to the church?

First, heeding the Word--and with a renewed God-fearing alertness and Holy Spirit-enabled recommitment to marriage standards among church leaders--we must resist the devil. Where the infiltration of worldly marriage standards for spiritual leadership has given place to the penetration of evil that is destroying the foundations of so many Christian homes, a turnaround can be effected.

Psalm 11:3 says, "If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?" But Isaiah 58:12 says the Lord will enable us to "raise up the foundations" again. A return to the Word will give place to the Spirit's purifying and restoration.


Second, the issues of biblical requirements must be taught and administrated not only with evenhanded patience and grace but also with faithfulness to the truth. This is not a call to legalism but a call from a growing sloppiness called "grace in the name of love," but without love's commitments or grace's power. Neither love nor grace should ever be a label used to bandage over our neglect or self-indulgence.

Third, let us pray for fallen leaders earnestly, while pursuing practical means to help strengthen and secure them in their marriages. I believe the following possibilities would make a tremendous difference in reversing the current trend and bringing healing and restoration:

For example, all training for ministry leadership should commit to shaping ministry candidates for their marriage as well as for their ministry. In God's eyes my fidelity to my wife is as important as my integrity in handling His Word or my purity in relating its truth. All Bible schools, training centers and seminaries must become responsive to this call.


Next, all Christian media should accept the responsibility to monitor, minister, admonish and administrate with reference to God's standards for a leader's marriage and morality. Most networks, publishers and broadcast stations do this, but some do not. By God's grace a uniform standard must be raised, showing it is not enough that a leader merely be "successful" or that they "sell," but that they be "found faithful" (see 1 Cor. 4:2).

Finally, all congregations, denominations and other fellowships of churches should aggressively provide and fund nurturing resources for pastoral couples. It is not enough to provide "burn clinics" for those who have been wounded or fallen—there is a cry today to advance means of preventive care.


With such priorities pursued anew, a true visitation of miracle power can be expected. Jesus likes weddings. We know that because He chose one for His first miracle. It just may be that our giving His kind of attention to our marriages—especially to His expectations for those of us who lead—may give place to His last miracle visit! *


Jack Hayford is founding pastor of The Church on the Way and chancellor of The King's College and Seminary in Van Nuys, California. He has been married to Anna since 1954.